World Adoption Day
Today, the 15th November 2016 marks the third World Adoption Day, a day designed to celebrate adoption and adoptive families. All over the world families are posting pictures of themselves on social media with a smiley on their hand. Why? Simply because no matter how tragically a child’s story begins, adoption brings new hope. Whether you are an adoptive family or not, you can join us: grab a pen, draw a smiley and post a photo too.
And, here are a few more ideas about how you can celebrate:
Think about adoption
Even if adoption has never been on the agenda before for your family, today is a day to think about it. Ask yourself these questions:
- Can you love a child?
- Is adoption something that you might consider?
Talk about adoption
To everyone. Most of our children are now exposed to adoptive families and they may have loads of unanswered questions. Today is a great opportunity to talk about what it means to be adopted, why children need adoptive families and how they should talk to friends who are adopted.
In addition, anecdotal evidence seems to suggest that children who are exposed to positive adoption stories when they are children are more likely to consider growing their families through adoption when they are adults.
Also remember that the reality in South Africa is that there are millions of unparented children who need families. The situation is tragic so even if you are not in a position to adopt, it is probably not something that you should ignore.
If you are not able to adopt (and even if you are), consider helping those who take care of orphans. Today is a great day to find a local Place of Safety or orphanage in need of aid, discover what they require and offer to donate goods, money or time to help them (involve your children if you can, they will love being able to assist and it will give them a new perspective on their own lives and how privileged they really are).
Finally, if you are an adoptive family, tell your story
If you are an adoptive family, wherever you happen to be on the day, tell your story. Be it with family, friends, at your place of worship, your sports club, the gym or the mall, today is a good day to talk about adoption and what it means to you. Tell what you feel comfortable telling, tell it formally or informally but however you do it, use today to celebrate your own adoptive family and, if you are willing, share your journey to inspire and help others.
How can you find out more?
If you need any assistance with getting involved or finding out about more about how to adopt, see How to adopt in South Africa or www.adoption.org.za or send me a message on the contact us page and I will do my best to point you in the right direction.
Time to celebrate
Happy World Adoption Day everyone, show off your smiley :), enjoy the day and here is to many many more!
How to adopt in South Africa By Robyn Wolfson Vorster It happens all the time, people tell me that they would love to adopt but they are intimidated by the process or don’t know where to start. If you are one of those, here is a short guide on what to do and how to do it. Stage 1: Starting the adoption process…[read more]read more
by Third Day This song has made me cry every Christmas for the last seven years (long before adoption ever became an option for us). It is the very personal story of Brad and Mindi Avery’s agonising wait for the arrival of their adoptive daughter and their joy when they were finally able to bring her home. This song is dedicated to everyone living through the wait this Christmas as well as to everyone whose wait is finally over… ...read more