Posts by Robyn

Is adoption for you? 5 questions for infertile couples to consider

If you are struggling with infertility is adoption for you? By Robyn Wolfson Vorster I will always remember that moment. It was the day before we discovered that our fifth and final attempt at IVF had failed. We were celebrating my husband’s birthday when the thought popped (unbidden) into my head, “what will you do if this one fails...

The adoption process in South Africa

How to adopt in South Africa By Robyn Wolfson Vorster It happens all the time, people tell me that they would love to adopt but they are intimidated by the process or don’t know where to start. If you are one of those, here is a short guide on what to do and how to do it. Stage 1: Starting...

Thinking about IVF? Here is what you can expect

No one wants to go through IVF but if it is required, it is best to know what to expect By Robyn Wolfson Vorster They are words that no infertile couple wants to hear: “your best option for having a baby is IVF”. In vitro fertilisation (IVF), words to strike fear into the bravest hearts. But, what does it...

Ten top tips for preparing for IVF

No matter how hard it is, IVF is essential for some.  Here is how to prepare by Robyn Wolfson Vorster Not a day goes by when I am not grateful for in-vitro fertilisation (better known as IVF). The privilege of living in the age of IVF was brought home to me recently while watching a television drama set in the 1950s....

Merry Christmas: An adoption story

by Third Day This song has made me cry every Christmas for the last seven years (long before adoption ever became an option for us).  It is the very personal story of Brad and Mindi Avery’s agonising wait for the arrival of their adoptive daughter and their joy when they were finally able to bring her home. This song is...